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My partner is having chemotherapy and we’d like to have sex but we’re worried it might be harmful. Is it OK or do we have to stop having sex until after chemo is finished? We’re too embarrassed to ask anyone at the hospital...

It’s absolutely OK to continue enjoying sex during chemotherapy. Neither of you will come to any harm. Specialists recommended that you use a condom for the first 48 hours after chemo.  This is to protect your partner from any of the drug that may be present in the semen or vaginal fluid.

Couples are also advised to avoid getting pregnant during chemotherapy as the drugs may harm the developing baby. 

It’s understandable to feel embarrassed about asking your doctors or nurses sensitive questions like this. But it’s fine to go ahead. They’ll be keen for you have the best possible quality of life during treatment so don’t hesitate to discuss any questions or concerns that you have with them.


Content last reviewed: 01 May 2009
Page last modified: 15 May 2009

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