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Books
| Badger's Parting Gifts |
| Author
| Susan Varley |
| Publisher
| Picture Lions |
| Description
| An illustrated story about a badger who died aimed at children between the ages of 4–11. The story describes the feelings and memories of his friends when they discovered that the badger has died. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0006643173 |
| Date
| 1994 |
| Beginnings and Endings with Lifetimes in Between |
| Author
| Bryan Mellonie & Robert Ingpen |
| Publisher
| Belitha Press Ltd |
| Description
| A picture book which illustrates that everything has a birth, a life and a death. The book explains that people also have to die too, sometimes because they are ill. Childrens book for ages: 1-6. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-1855617605 |
| Date
| 1997 |
| Caring For People With Different Faiths |
| Author
| Julia Neuberger |
| Publisher
| Radcliffe Medical Press |
| Description
| Covers various practical and ethical issues of caring for dying people. It outlines the various cultures of different faiths which are of relevance to health and healthcare and gives practical advice on providing care in a culturally appropriate manner. It also includes a chapter on Humanism. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978–1-857759-45-7 |
| Date
| 2004 |
| Caring for Someone Who is Dying |
| Author
| Penny Mares |
| Publisher
| Age Concern |
| Description
| This book includes sections on understanding the nature of the illness, getting help with caring, money and legal matters, approaching death, bereavement and grief, and finally, what to do after someone has died. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-862423-70-4 |
| Date
| 2003 |
| Death and Bereavement Across Cultures |
| Author
| Colin Murray Parkes |
| Publisher
| Routledge |
| Description
| This is a handbook to meet the needs of doctors, nurses, social workers, counsellors and others involved in the care of the dying and bereaved of different cultures. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-415131-37-7 |
| Date
| 1996 |
| Facing Grief: Bereavement and the Young Adult |
| Author
| Susan Wallbank |
| Publisher
| Lutterworth Press |
| Description
| A supportive book for any young person facing or dealing with bereavement. It discusses how to cope with the death of a member of the family, or a friend. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0-718828-07-0 |
| Date
| 1996 |
| Healing Grief: A Guide to Loss and Recovery |
| Author
| Barbara Ward |
| Publisher
| Vermilion |
| Description
| A wide ranging book concentrating on bereavement but also covering other types of loss, for example divorce. Explains the grieving process, and how different members of the family may react to bereavement. There is a section on the effects of loss on children and ways that adults can help them adapt to the loss. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0091778392 |
| Date
| 1993 |
| In Your Own Time: a guide for patients and carers facing terminal illness at home |
| Author
| Elizabeth Lee |
| Publisher
| Oxford University Press |
| Description
| This book, written by a GP, is a guide for anyone affected by serious illness to empower them with the information they need to maintain the highest possible quality of life in their final days. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-198509-75-2 |
| Date
| 2002 |
| Living and Dying with Cancer |
| Author
| Angela Armstrong-Coster |
| Publisher
| Cambridge University Press |
| Description
| Explores the impact of being diagnosed with cancer on those with the disease and the people around them. It follows the different trajectories of the disease from the very first symptoms, through treatment to death. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-52154-66-7 |
| Date
| 2004 |
| Losing a Parent: Practical Help for You and Other Family Members |
| Author
| Fiona Marshall |
| Publisher
| Da Capo Press Inc |
| Description
| Looks at coping with terminal illness and death and at the grieving process. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0738209951 |
| Date
| 2004 |
| Michael Rosen's Sad Book |
| Author
| Michael Rosen and Quentin Blake |
| Publisher
| Walker Books |
| Description
| For people of all ages who have suffered a bereavement, this highly praised book tells the story, in pictures and words, of Michael Rosen's grief at the death at 18 of his second son, Eddie. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-744598-98-8 |
| Date
| 2004 |
| Straight Talk About Death For Teenagers: how to cope with losing someone you love |
| Author
| Earl Grollman |
| Publisher
| Beacon Press |
| Description
| Suggests ways to deal with the grief and other emotions felt after the death of a loved one and to discover how to go on living. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-807025-01-7 |
| Date
| 2003 |
| Talking About Death: A Dialogue Between Parent and Child |
| Author
| Earl A. Grollman |
| Publisher
| Beacon Press |
| Description
| An American publication. It is well written with very useful advice. The bibliography is extremely comprehensive but the emphasis is on American organisations. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0807023631 |
| Date
| 1991 |
| The Bereaved Parent |
| Author
| Harriet Sarnoff Schiff |
| Publisher
| Souvenir Press |
| Description
| An easy-to-read book, covering the major emotional and practical issues that may affect parents who have lost a child. A lot of the text is in the form of quotes and personal experiences of parents. |
| ISBN
| 0-285648-91-8 |
| Date
| 1979 |
| The Empty Bed: Bereavement and the Loss of Love |
| Author
| Susan Wallbank |
| Publisher
| Darton, Longman & Todd |
| Description
| An interesting and helpful book which considers bereavement from the point of view of different groups of people. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-232526-39-4 |
| Date
| 2005 |
| The Natural Death Handbook |
| Author
| Nicholas Albery |
| Publisher
| The Natural Death Centre |
| Description
| Includes information on many topics relating to 'green' or natural funerals. Also covers preparing for dying, and caring for a dying person at home, drawing up a will, advance funeral wishes, living wills and memory boxes. |
| ISBN
| 0-712605-76-2 |
| Date
| 2003 |
| Waterbugs and Dragonflies: Explaining Death to Young Children |
| Author
| Doris Stickney |
| Publisher
| Pilgrim Press |
| Description
| Aimed at children between the ages of 4–11 this is an illustrated storybook about a waterbug who left pond life for another life as a dragonfly. There are some notes for parents on explaining death to children using the story, and prayers and extracts from the bible. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0829811803 |
| Date
| 1999 |
| What On Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies? |
| Author
| Trevor Romain and Elizabeth Verdick |
| Publisher
| Free Spirit Publishing |
| Description
| Aimed at children between the ages of 4–8 this book covers questions about death and what happens after a death. Useful for not only parents, but also for bereavement counsellors, teachers, and health professionals. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-1-575420-55-4 |
| Date
| 2003 |
| What to Do When Someone Dies |
| Author
| Paul Harris (Editor) |
| Publisher
| Which? Consumer Guides |
| Description
| Gives information about dealing with the formalities after someone someone has died as straightforward and simple as possible. The book covers the law and practice in England and Wales and highlights in separate sections the important differences which apply in Scotland. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-1-844900-28-2 |
| Date
| 2006 |
| When Bad Things Happen to Good People |
| Author
| Harold S Kushner |
| Publisher
| Pan Books |
| Description
| The author, whose son died at the age of 14, discusses bereavement from a personal and religious viewpoint. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0330490559 |
| Date
| 2002 |
| When Dinosaurs Die: a guide to understanding death |
| Author
| Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown |
| Publisher
| Little, Brown and Company |
| Description
| This booklet helps to provide answers to some of the most often asked questions by children between the ages of 4 to 8. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-316119-55-9 |
| Date
| 2004 |
| When Parents Die: Learning to Live with the Loss of a Parent |
| Author
| Rebecca Abrams |
| Publisher
| Routledge |
| Description
| The author writes about her personal experience of losing her father and step-father in her late teens. For all those whose parents have died "long before you are ready to live without them". Suitable for young people who have recently lost a parent and also for older people whose parents died when they were young. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0415200660 |
| Date
| 1999 |
| When Something Terrible Happens: Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief |
| Author
| Marge Heegaard |
| Publisher
| Woodland Press |
| Description
| A practical workbook for colouring and drawing which aims to show that grief is a normal reaction to loss. The book also aims to teach children about feelings, and to discuss painful memories. Children's book for ages 7-11. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13: 978-0962050237 |
| Date
| 1991 |
| Wills and Probate: a complete guide to making a will and administering an estate |
| Author
| Paul Elmhirst |
| Publisher
| Which? Books |
| Description
| Provides clear, easy-to-follow guidelines on the main provisions to make in a will and the factors you should consider when drafting these. The second part of the book provides step-by-step guidance on probate, making the process as straightforward and trouble-free as possible. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-1-844900-33-6 |
| Date
| 2007 |
| You'll Get Over It: The Rage of Bereavement |
| Author
| Virginia Ironside |
| Publisher
| Penguin Books |
| Description
| The death of a loved one is the most traumatic experience any of us face. The author deals with this complicated and sensitive issue, drawing on other people's accounts as well as her own experiences. |
| ISBN
| ISBN-13:978-0-140236-08-8 |
| Date
| 1997 |
Booklets and factsheets
| Coping with loss |
| Author
| Wessex Cancer Trust |
| Description
| A leaflet on bereavement and how to recognise and understand one's reactions to it, including practical and emotional advice on coping. |
| Obtain from
| Wessex Cancer Trust, Bellis House, 11 Westwood Road, Southampton, Hampshire, SO17 1DL. Tel: 023 8067 2200. Fax: 023 8067 2266. |
| URL
| http://www.wessexcancer.org |
| End of Life - The Facts |
| Author
| Cancerbackup & Marie Curie Cancer Care |
| Description
| This booklet provides information for people who would like to be looked after at home during the final stages of their life. |
| Obtain from
| Online version available at www.mariecurie.org.uk/endoflife
Order from be.Macmillan or call 0800 500 800. |
| What To Do After A Death In England and Wales |
| Author
| Department of Work and Pensions |
| Description
| A guide to what you must do and the help you can get when someone in your family dies. |
| Date
| 2006 |
| Obtain from
| Available online at www.dwp.gov.uk/publications
A copy can be obtained, along with advice on benefits for widows or widowers, from your local Job Centre Plus or Citizen's Advice Bureau offices and sometimes your local post office. |
| What To Do After A Death in Scotland: practical advice for times of bereavement |
| Author
| Scottish Executive Justice Department |
| Description
| This booklet (applies to Scotland only) gives information about some of the things that need to be done when someone dies. |
| Date
| 2007 |
| Obtain from
| It is available online at www.scotland.gov.uk/Resource |
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