You may need to make some changes – big or small – to your home, in order to make life easier for you both. For example, if the person you are caring for needs to use a wheelchair, you may be able to have some doors widened and ramps built over steps. This way, they can keep some independence.

An occupational therapist can advise you on the safety of the house's layout, and on making minor changes such as putting handrails on the stairs or in the bathroom, or moving a bed downstairs.

Major adaptations might be possible and include putting in a toilet or shower downstairs, and installing a stair lift. These kinds of alterations can, however, take several months of planning and involve all the disturbance of building work. You will need to discuss whether you are prepared to go through this upheaval.

If you live in a council house or flat, adaptations are usually paid for by the local authority, although this varies from area to area and depends on local policy and the funds available. If you own your house or flat or rent it privately, you might still be able to get some financial help. Ask the occupational therapist, social worker, or the local social services department. Make sure you claim financial help before you get any work done.