'During my radiotherapy I became very emotional. I would start crying for no reason.'

This is how one woman felt. Another described herself as being 'very weepy', not during the treatment but a couple of weeks afterwards. These emotions are shared by many people who have radiotherapy, or any treatment for cancer. It can be very difficult to try to come to terms not only with the illness itself but also with the treatments and possible side effects.

Many people who have radiotherapy will already have had some cancer treatment; for others this may be the beginning of a long treatment period. Radiotherapy can bring about physical changes which are very distressing, such as the menopause or hair loss.

We all have our own ways of coping with difficulties. Some people have a close network of family and friends who give emotional support. Others would rather seek help from people who are not involved in their illness. Either way it is important to know that support is available if you need it. You can ask at your treatment hospital if help is available locally.

You will also find useful advice in the following sections:

• Talking to someone with cancer - for relatives and friends of people with cancer. It looks at some of the difficulties people may have when talking about cancer, and suggests ways of overcoming them.
• Talking about your cancer - suggests simple, practical ways to help you talk about your needs and feelings.
• The emotional effects of cancer - discusses the different emotions that may occur and has tips on dealing with them.
• Talking to children about cancer - a guide for parents with cancer.

The nurses at our cancer support service can give you information on all aspects of cancer and its treatment, and on the practical and emotional problems of living with the illness. Some people find it helpful to talk through their feelings with a trained counsellor.